They say our personalities are pretty much set by the age of six or seven – a lot like hardened concrete. And it takes some sort of significant emotional event like a divorce, a death or someone snatching a pair of shoes you’ve had your eye on for three weeks right off the sale rack …
Age – to tell or not to tell?
It’s an interesting dilemma when it comes to revealing age to a younger guy. I’ve always been a big proponent of telling all – when it comes to age, and most subjects for that matter. My position has always been, why hide anything? Age, as our tag line says, is just a number – or …
What complicates friends with bennies?
First off, let’s just admit that cougars and cubs alike don’t mind an occasional friend with benefits (FWB) arrangement. In fact, some actually prefer it. Although the FWB arrangements look easy to work out when Katherine Heigl and Gerard Butler are on the big screen as you’re crunching through a tub of buttered popcorn; most of us believe we …
What do men love about older women?
Well you could start with a shorter answer and ask, “What don’t men love about older women?” And remember for the purpose of this discussion – older is relative. Not your relative – but relative, as in … older than the guy she’s hanging out with. The gap could be 3, 5, 10, 15, or …
Youngest cub makes an impact!
There are many qualities that attract cougars to cubs and one of them is the “cute” factor. Well take a look at little Michael here, who is undoubtedly the youngest, smallest, and cutest cub of all time!
Michael was discovered by one of the cubs from our den while sporting his “I heart cougars” T-shirt. And …
The best way to celebrate sexy
When it comes to celebrating sexy there is a fine line between sexy and dirty. “Sexy” is done with class, confidence, poise, control and with a purpose. “Dirty” is often done spontaneously, for exploitation, without abandon and at times for the sole purpose of gaining the attention of men – because their attention alone is the …



